Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Future plans..

Jux got hm from work.. Yesterday night shift was gd.. smooth & able to perform.. Boss said "good job" before he hang up this morning.. *twist twist*

Read baby's blog during toilet break yesterday during work.. so funny lah the entry.. cux its abt our random topic abt having kids next time.. hahaha.. Its like we go on & on, but in the end we decided to drop the idea of having kids next time.. hahaha.. Well baby, its not tat easy to haf kids.. especially when the family formation is "abnormal" based on social norms.. and its oso abt financial abilities & commitments.. its a huge responsibilities i wld say.. so we really hafto think twice.. but seriously, i wont wanto haf kids for now.. cux i noe i cant commit n be 100% sure tat i wld pour my heart & soul in caring for the child.. jux dun feel the "motherly love" in me.. hahaha.. so for now, lets jux K.I.V the idea bah.. =)

But i agree wif u baby tat we can't possibly be still hanging ard in town & clubbing when we rch our late 30s or 40s.. We need to rch another stage of our life.. Well, it cld means another level in our career or lifestyle.. i was thinking we cld travel more? and to countries tat we nv been before & always wanted to go.. im sure by then, we shld haf the financial means to start our tour ard the world.. hehehe.. tats one way to enrich ourselves & experience lifes tat we nv experience before.. Im sure we wld work things out along the way yah? Cux its still many yrs down the road mah.. so jux thrive in our career for now & enjoy our journey tgt.. hehe..

Anyway, talking abt future plans.. I had a heart to heart talk wif er jie during the loitering session on the 1st night in Genting.. She was sharing the idea of me buying the unit right besides da jie's place in another abt 3-5yrs.. den parents, she & kervis & of course me can stay tgt in the new place.. So its like the family can get to see each other more often.. We wld sell our existing unit & parents cld keep the profit from the sale.. cux they bought at abt $70k but now the selling price is abt $200+ k.. so er jie was saying parents cld enjoy their retirement wif the extra money.. Of course the downpayment for the new house wld pay using the profit.. den the new house wld haf my name since im the one paying using my CPF..

Im quite keen on the idea, cux all along i haf the idea of investing in property using my CPF $ den to let it rot inside my CPF.. Though i thot i cld invest in more central property or even private property & rent out.. but i think the idea of having the while family staying close tgt is quite a gd idea.. and parents can oso become better off & haf a better retirement w/o relying totally on us..

But i did tell er jie tat even if we all move tgt, i wld still cont to stay often at baby's place.. and she understands tat.. but baby, mayb next time can try to involve u more in my family? jux like kervis lidat? cux by the time im 30s or 40s, im sure they wld haf accept the fact tat im a les & u're my partner le.. hahaha.. well, im not asking u to be very close wif them.. but at least next time, we cld all go on a tour tgt if there is.. if not we wld always suffer from "love sick" when any of us is away on a family tour mah hor?? hehe..

I am also looking forward to baby's idea of moving into a double storey HDB next time.. and we cld haf a leisure room on the 1st floor, so when frens come over for chill out session, we won't disturb her parents.. and precious or precious' kid can run up & down the stairs as exercise.. hahaha..

Im oso excited abt designing my own house/room next time.. am excited becos i can do it the way i want it to be n not like some garang guni's room now.. =\

Alright, this entry is seriously long.. haha.. and castle tat im building jux gets bigger & bigger.. haha.. so gonna ends here.. and go wash clothes & socks.. iron shirt & nap before cutting hair & meeting baby & nick ltr!! Its gonna be a happy day ahead.. *nite nite*

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